Saturday, November 24, 2012

War and it's impact on children

            I remember when the United States entered into war with Iraq; shortly after the world trade centers were attacked.  I remember watching the news broadcast of President George W. Bush announcing the declaration of war with Iraq. I was around eleven years old.  I specifically remember the feeling of fear that I had.  Up to that point in my childhood, I had never been aware of war and its effects.  I did not know what was going to happen, or how it was going to affect our family.  I remember my mom and dad, watching the broadcast with both an expression of concern and fear.  The days that followed I found myself watching everything from a child riding down the street to an airplane in the sky because I did not understand what was meant by "war."  I just knew that it was bad and I was afraid of it.  I watched as the things around me changed, such as the prices of everything.  People began to be cautious about their money. Everyone started talking about how bad things were then, but more so about how bad things continue to become.  My uncle, who is in the army, had to leave us for 18 months to go fight in the war in Iraq.  I was even more frightened when I learned that we may not ever see my uncle again, I was told that we were sure he would come home alive.  We prayed for him every day and night, and anxiety became a feeling that I knew too well.  I found myself worrying all of the time, about my uncle, about prices, about our safety.  My parents noticed this change in me, and they sat me and my sister down and talked with us about all of the events happening around us. They assured us that they were going to keep us safe, and that we should not worry about prices.  They told us that God would protect us, and that we need to just keep praying for our uncle.  This calmed my worries, there were times when I would let all the feelings of worry and anxiety come back, but for the most part I felt safe, secure and protected.  Without my parents I do not know what I would have done.  Thankfully, my uncle returned to all of us safe and sound at the end of his deployment.  Unfortunately, we are all still seeing the effects of war beating on my uncle.  He still struggles with PTSD, but he is now receiving help for these problems. 
            Because I described how life was for me during the war in Iraq as a child, I also decided to research how life for a child in Iraq is.  During the war, I heard countless news reports of children being killed, or used as war weapons.  My uncle told us that there were times that children would have bombs strapped to them and they would be made to run towards American soldiers to kill them.  These children would die, and thousands of others would be injured and scarred physically, mentally, and emotionally for the rest of their lives.  According to the save the children organization, children continue to suffer from the psychological trauma of war and conflict, and access to education and development opportunities has been severely constrained (Save the Children, 2012).   Right now, in the northern part of Iraq, there are only 15 schools hosting 43 different institutions.  Each institutions provides services for three to four hours a day.  The schools are overcrowded, does not have a clean water supply and lacks garbage disposal systems. 
There are efforts being made to help the children in Iraq.  The Save the Children organization are continuing to work with 15 schools, and are focusing on psychosocial activities for the children, both in and out of school.  Child protection and awareness are being focused on, poster and booklets in Arabic are being given out to the surrounding communities.  Everyone is being informed on the importance of protecting the children.  In September of 2009, the main focus was to have safe water and a sanitation project in the works.  Efforts are being made to help the children in Iraq become the successful adults that they deserve to be.  I am praying for these children and I hope that the work continues. 


Save the children. (2012, July). Iraq. Retrieved from http://www.savethechildren.org/site/c.8rKLIXMGIpI4E/b.6153129/k.C257/Iraq.htm

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Breastfeeding

For this blog, I chose the topic of Breastfeeding.  I do not have children of my own yet so I have never experienced breastfeeding personally, but I am aware of the views of breastfeeding in the United States.  I believe that breastfeeding is important for both mother and baby.  Breastfeeding connects the mother and baby and helps the bond between them grow stronger.  It is beneficial for the baby physically, emotionally, and mentally.    I researched breastfeeding in Japan.  After World War II, Japanese women were forced to give birth in hospitals, and their newborns were kept in a nursery and given formula.  The concept of breastfeeding began to fade.  Today, most Japanese women give birth in hospitals and are discharged to go home within a week.  Instead of going to their own homes the woman goes to her parent's home and the woman's mother helps her with the baby.  Because of the previous history of breastfeeding in Japan, the grandmother's do not know how to breastfeed and therefore cannot help her daughter learn to breastfeed.  In the last 35 years, Japan has begun to support breastfeeding, and has Baby-Friendly hospitals and board certified lactation consultants.  Learning about how a different culture views breastfeeding has been interesting.  In the future, in the daycare that I plan to open I am going to offer breastfeeding resources and make it an environment that welcomes breastfeeding. 

Payne, Cynthia D.,(2003). Japenese Culture and Breastfeeding. New Beginnings, 20,5.  Retrieved from http://www.lalecheleague.org/nb/nbsepoct03p181.html

Monday, November 5, 2012

Birthing Experiences


The birthing experience that I chose to write about is the birth of my sister's daughter, Lexi.  When my sister found out she was pregnant everyone was nervous but very excited!! When the time came for my sister's labor and delivery my family was there to support her.  My sister had a very hard time during labor, she had some complications and the labor lasted more than 24 hours.  While my sister was in labor, she had very good medical care, the doctors and nurses were so nice and caring.  They helped keep my sister calm and assured her everything was going to be ok.  Finally after a hard and long labor process my sister gave birth to a healthy baby girl, Lexi.  After the birth, the nurses and doctors helped my sister in every way the best way and made sure that both baby and mom were doing well.  I do not have any children of my own, so this is the only birthing experience that I have ever been a part of.  It is an event that I will always remember, it was stressful and worrysome, but it was also exciting and wonderful.  This Thursday my niece will be 2 years old.  She is healthy and happy and mom is as well.

However, in South Africa the birthing experience most of the time is nothing like the experience that I just described.  The pregnant women who come to the hospitals because they are in labor, sometimes are abused physically and verbally.  Some women are even turned away and reprimanded because they are accused of lying.  The women that are commited to the hospitals are pinched, slapped, and handled roughly during labor and at times the nurses ignore calls for help.  After the birth, women and their babies are ignored for long periods of time.  Many times, the mothers are sent home with no pain medication and no care products. I am so glad that  my sister did not have this kind of birthing experience.  There are organizations working to change the way births happen in South Africa.  I hope one day all women will be able to experience the birth of their children in a way that will allow them to cherish this special time. 

Nordqvist, Christian. (2011, August 8). The Shocking Truth About Giving Birth in South Africa. Medical News Today. Retrieved from http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/232413.php